DEAR DEIDRE : THOUGH I have got a great girlfriend, I’m scared she will dump me – I’m so worried I disappoint her in bed. She’s my ...
DEAR DEIDRE: THOUGH I have got a great girlfriend, I’m scared she will dump me – I’m so worried I disappoint her in bed.
She’s my first proper girlfriend. I’m 23 and have been with her for a year. I am quite shy and, aforges, thought I’d be a virgin for good.
I met this girl at work and we clicked from the start. She’s 22 and we share the same interests and sense of humour.
As a couple we could be so great. The one problem is that every time we have sex, I finish too soon. I never last longer than two minutes. I can tell it’s a disappointment for her but she always says it’s OK.
DEIDRE SAYS: You must not worry so much, this is easily fixed. If you finish too soon, take a break and then do it again. You will likely last longer the second time.
If you can share a joke about it, all the better. It will relieve the tension that is adding to the problem. My e-leaflet Want To Last Longer explains more self-help.
Credits: Deidre Sanders
The Sun
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